2 out of 10 men are from Venus
Yes it happens. I hear talk of a woman (it’s almost urban myth), who has a boyfriend who ‘gets it’!!! He doesn’t need it all explaining in simple terms, he likes doing stuff she likes doing as well as doing stuff men like doing, you know, building things, painting and being handy. A telling sign that this man is in fact from Venus is the fact that he can’t introduce us to his fellow upstanding men because most of his friends are girls!
Yet again I despair at the mad world of dating. It’s this ‘right girl, wrong time‘ story…its BORING! This new film that’s out; He’s just not that into you, well I bought the book right off the back of SATC many years ago and found it a very liberating experience. It’s actually quite nice to have a definitve stand. The problem is not dealing with the fact that the guy isn’t interested, its the sideways, not quite saying what’s up, see if you can work it out yourself approach that guiles me. If he hasn’t called you for a week because he’s so ‘busy’…..he’s just not that into you!
A Venetian man understands why not saying something is more problematic that what needs to be said. Maybe the problem is that too many men are now feeling Venetian; sensitive and tortured and not able to handle it the way a woman can so they hide. While too many women (including myself) are starting to feel a bit Martian; 1 + 1 = 2, say what you mean and let me get on with what I was doing before you turned up!